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Field Notes · Dating & Modern Relationships

Are We Dating the Same Guy Has 10 Million Women Talking. Here's What Every Man Needs to Know.

Are We Dating the Same Guy (AWDTSG) is a network of women-only Facebook groups with over 10 million members across hundreds of city-specific chapters. Women post photos of men they are dating and the group responds with everything they know. Here is how it works and what a high-value man does about it.

April 30, 2026Read →

Field Notes · Dating & Modern Relationships

The Tea App Has 4 Million Women Rating Men. Here's What You Need to Know.

The Tea App is a women-only platform where over 4 million women rate and review men they've dated. It is legal, growing fast, and men cannot see their reviews. Here is what women are evaluating and how to become the man whose reputation never needs defending.

April 30, 2026Read →

Field Notes · Dating & Communication

Cold Approach Guide for Men: How to Meet Women in Real Life and Why It Changes Everything

The lost art that separates you from 95% of men. Mindset, openers, the 3-second rule, the alpha number play, and why women secretly want you to approach them in person.

April 29, 2026Read →

Field Notes · Dating & Communication

First Date Tips for Men: How to Win the First Date and Get the Second

The father question. The 80/20 rule. How to plant seeds, close strong, and get her thinking about you on the drive home. From 1,000 first dates in South Florida.

April 29, 2026Read →

Field Notes · Dating & Communication

How to Text Women: The Complete Guide From First Message to First Date

Your profile, your opener, the banter, the alpha number play, and why you should go completely silent after locking in the date. No scripts. Real strategy from 1,000 first dates.

April 29, 2026Read →

Field Notes · Men's Development

Body Language for Men: How to Own Yours and Read Hers

Most body language guides teach you to read others. This one teaches both sides of the loop. How to own your body language first — then how to read hers. From 27 years in sales and 1,000 first dates.

April 28, 2026Read →

Field Notes · Modern Dating

The Burned Haystack Method: What Hundreds of Thousands of Women Are Doing to Filter Men in Modern Dating — And How to Be the One They Keep

270,000+ women are running a structured filter on every man they meet. Most men have no idea this is happening. Here's what it is — and how to become the needle they keep.

April 27, 2026Read →

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